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"A family residing in north London wants to find an extraordinary and skilled tutor to guide their most junior child on his first steps to becoming an English gentleman."

Upon seeing this post, you might readily miss the term "initial stages" as just an expression.

Yet, it might be the most important aspect of this distinctive job advert, as it seeks to find a tutor for a one-year-old.

Numerous of responses have now been submitted since the unnamed family advertised their call for the £180,000 per year tutor, who must be "an exceptional individual".

Over the last few weeks, the post has received notice in the press, with numerous asking why?

Innovative Idea

A tutoring expert, CEO and founder of an education consultancy, which is helping the family in their hunt, stated that in spite of initial doubt, he viewed the concept "far sighted", and "advanced".

When he spoke with the family, he mentioned they appreciated the atypical nature of their requirement, and how immature their son is.

Nevertheless, they explained that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to get a tutor, as they had postponed until their firstborn was five, and by that stage "cultural influence had by then set in".

What precisely did the family indicate by "cultural bias"?

It's "everything", Adam responded. "The manner you eat, the way you speak".

He said the firstborn had absorbed "extremely delicate, body language" from the family, and had taken on their cultural ways. The family told the consultant they hoped to prevent this pattern to happen again with their infant.

The intention: To bring in a UK tutor, who needs to speak with standard English accent, to influence the baby from the very start.

Natural Absorption

"Much of the education at the outset here is rather absorbed naturally," said the expert.

It's by means of this subtle influence that the family are hoping the child will pick up the English characteristics they wish to impart.

Adam said the tutor needed to be an individual who went to "the appropriate educational institutions – similar types of schools as the family hope to send their son to".

"The educator simply needs to be the suitable individual, they'll be doing things they aren't even aware they're doing, effortlessly," he commented.

Cost Not Relevant

The family told Adam the successful candidate should ideally also have knowledge of or interest in horse riding, winter sports, the arts and music so as to inspire the child in a broad spectrum of passions.

Additionally though, he said the family hoped the tutor to sign up the child on a range of classes so the child would be "pony-riding and picking up an musical instrument by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's perspective, helping their son become a "British gentleman" will bring about accomplishment and provide access.

"For all the pros and cons of that, because it's undoubtedly a class statement," he notes.

Yet, in spite of all this instruction in "Britishness", might the child pick up so-called cultural leaning from the international family he lives with anyway?

"Yes", replied the CEO. "They understand this may not work, but they've merely embraced the perspective of, 'why not attempt it and we should start as soon as we can', because the cost of it is irrelevant," he stated.

Overly Optimistic

A number of in the education sector who have similar concerns.

An education leader, chief executive of an educational organization, who also offer private tutors, commented that "the process of embracing two identities, or actually, forming one's identity, is something that must be lived into, not designed."

The expert noted that he had emigrated from Asia to the UK at the age of 7 years old, and had been brought up understanding and living both cultures. He went on to learn at Cambridge University.

"The idea that a single person can function as a embodiment of UK identity, a person who can somehow transplant the characteristics of a British gentleman to a 12-month-old child, appears naive and impractical," he stated.

"In my experience, employing a distinctly UK tutor from infancy will will not instantly create the result they want.

"I did not have such a tutor, and nevertheless I have been fortunate enough to live several of the opportunities they aspire for their son."

He added: "The reality is, self-identity can not be forced from the external environment; it must be selected, and it must originate internally."

Purchasing UK Culture

Certainly, English culture is something the CEO believes can be instructed – and commercialized.

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